Yesterday I turned 25. Anyone who has recently turned 25 will likely experience a quarter of life crises, according to folks I’ve spoken to or learned about by reading, listening to podcasts, and largely by watching others and their lives. When I give it some thought and by my friend Abza’s counsel on my birthday yesterday about some facets of life. I genuinely feel that this problems is an aspect of life, and that as you get older, the severity increases. I even think that when challenges strikes, those who are resilient rise to the moment.
Major crisis as having the karma of a toddler with no understanding of the outside world. We carried the lightest loads of strap-on bags for school and college.
In college, the ideas of freedom, feelings, emotions, and other things were introduced. Yes! I learned how to do a number of things. Sorry, no one pushed me to do anything, but I ended up drinking, smoking, getting into relationships that were much worse, and I failed miserably in college. I believe that the reverse of what I did there caused scores, living, and at one point tried ending my life. I believe that college gave me a glimpse into my life, but it was all still in a bubble.
After approaching the graduating phase, did anything change? I got nothing to lose, even if everything went wrong. Still in relationships trusted and got backstabbed, loved and lost, failed and succeeded. Developed 4 KT’s in 2 years of graduation but tried not to get Kt’s in the last year and got graduated. I still cherish the moments I spent in college which shaped me as a human which is good and bad habits. Good habit’s that Rotaract and friends and seniors gave me the opportunity to capture emotions and even shape my life.
Nobody will care about you if you don’t plant the seeds of your own delusion; attachment, power, and money are its three main fuel sources. Since everyone in the world is selfish, it’s crucial to separate oneself from everyone else. People will judge you more quickly than get to know you personally. You begin to see that there are only a select few individuals who genuinely care about your success or applaud you after your presentation, as opposed to the majority of individuals who choose to simply sit back and laugh at you rather than approach you and engage in conversation. The people who stay and those who go are easy to tell apart since they both hold the same beliefs that everything unfolds for a reason, everything falls into place, that eventually things will start make sense.
Because there have been so many 360-degree loops and turns, I am unable to adequately describe the past nine years or compare them to a roller coaster. Nobody could possibly withstand it. Yes, but 2 years ago, I stopped drinking and smoking. Published 12 books as a co-author and 2 books as an Author. I finished my master’s degree and worked with many clients and brands on their influencer and social media management initiatives. I began my own company a year ago, performing freelance work as a side business while travelling and posting information about it. With all the affection and blessings we receive every day, we are happy and embracing the quarter-life crisis. With all the problems I face in life, I am constantly learning and unlearning new things.
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